Giving Thanks for Animal Rescue: Dogs and Cats Who Got a Second Chance
Heartfelt words about cat and dog adoption, near and far, past and present
We may live at opposite ends of the globe, speak different languages, practice different religions, disagree politically, even stand on either side of the biker vs hiker controversy, but if you are someone who extends a helping hand to animals, you and I can still be friends. We have the basis for a relationship.
Last year at this time, I gave a pitch for animal rescue – the rewards of adopting homeless dogs and cats. Actually, I didn’t make the pitch, blogger friends contributed stories about their own pets and the ties that bind. And so we’re doing it a second time. Some contributions come from as far away as Australia, Germany, and Brazil; others are from truly exotic locations – Altadena, included. And here’s the thing about animal lovers – whether the story comes from Poland or Pasadena, we voice the same sentiments, we share a common ground.
Today, it’s my job to just get out of the way, except to say, on a personal note, pets occupy a unique place in our hearts, and the emptiness when they die can’t be filled by the simple act of replacement. Grieving hurts. But anyone worth loving is worth missing, deeply. The depth of our sorrow is a form of respect. And we'll adopt again, after the one we miss makes some room, gives up a little of the heart's real estate.
Ok, and now for the good part: Stories and pictures. Some will appear today, and we have more stories tomorrow. Enjoy. And please join the conversation; we want to hear about your friends, past and present.
I'm two years into living with my second cat rescue and I still don't know if Luna retains any memory of her earlier, more difficult days before we were brought together.
But I like to think that she does. Every time she jogs to the door when we come in, every time she gets a little fresh turkey when we come back from the Trader Joes, every time she moves from one spot of sunlight to another, I imagine a little synapse of gratitude gets fired in her brain. And then the same thing happens to me, I get grateful for the friends and the food and the warmth that I get to experience.
--Kevin McCollister, Los Angeles
In 2001, I adopted my cats, Reggie and Rose. I went to the shelter for a kitten, but came back with two. They changed my life. When my husband, then-boyfriend, an avowed cat hater, met them five years ago, he fell in love. They changed his life, too. Nowadays, he sings to them almost every morning.
Reggie is a clown and will do anything for a laugh and a chin scratch. Perpetually ungraceful and un-silent, he clamors like a horse when he plays, galloping after his toys. Though he loves to be petted, he rarely crawls into a seated lap, so when he does, it feels like I am the luckiest cat mom in the world. He is judiciously generous, though, with his nighttime cuddles, alternating almost every other night between my husband's belly and the crook of my right arm. Every animal that Reggie meets he tries to make his best friend, and he has always succeeded. Something about Reggie erases tension--it is nearly impossible to be worried or unhappy in his presence.
Rose prefers mountains and crevices. She sleeps either on the highest point, my hip, say, or tunneled deep under the covers. Waking us up with loud meows every morning, she demands food that her skinny body never seems to absorb. Unlike the jolly Reggie, she is serious and elegant. Her tail always wraps tightly around her seated body to hide her white toes, accentuating her ramrod posture. But, Rose's composure fails when it comes to laps. She, despite her allergies to human dander (yes, it's true), can't stay out them, and once in them, turns into a floppy, furry mess of roaring, crackling purrs.
A few weeks ago, we added another species to the household by adopting a Chocolate Lab from a rescue that had saved him from euthanasia at a shelter. We have a lot to learn about being dog parents to Indiana. He is smart. He is very funny. He can get in trouble quickly. Yet seeing his athletic body leap as we play fetch is awe-inspiring: steely muscle rubber-snapping as he bounces from earth to sky and back. He needs so much from us, but after a month or so of being part of our family, he is already giving much back.
Reggie hasn't won over Indiana yet. We are giving it time.
--Christina Wenger, Altadena
The more rescues you have, the luckier you are in life. Our elegant Eagle Rock pack includes Mickie, female spaniel from Glendale HS; Riley, male pit bull mix abandoned on the the street; and Jasper, male Samoyed mix from Pasadena HS.
--Mary Monroe, Glendale
A year ago my daughter found a rescue kitten on Facebook. She hounded me for two days to "GET HER!" Finally I said, "If you make the call and you go and get her, I'll take her." I'd never had a cat and to be honest never really wanted one. Meeps came into my life and we've been in love since that very minute. She lets me smooch on her as much as I want to and curls up in my lap or against my legs every night. I'm besotted.
--Virginia Kelser Jones, Alabama
Tommy with his expressive face and hilarious nature changed my life. Sweet, wiggly Louise weaseled her way into my heart. I hadn’t planned on sharing my home with them, but once a pittie breaks into your orbit, it’s hard to get rid of him – or her. Lucky me.
--Susan Campisi, Altadena
We lost Thor 3 months before Thanksgiving, and 2 months before his "Ten-and-one-half" birthday. A 230 pound dog is a huge part of the family in more ways than one. He's the guy who shows up every morning to stuff his head under your arm if you forget to give him a hug. He's the one who eats everything you cook with gusto. He's the big hairy kid who thinks he belongs wherever the people are. To get fed in my house on Thanksgiving, you are required to stand in the group at the front door, with a camera on a tripod taking innumerable pictures via delayed timer. Thor was always front and center in every group photo, waiting for his hugs and his dinner. He won't be there this year, and our tears will fall in the hole in the group photo. There's no greater day than Thanksgiving for appreciating the people and animals in your life, and there's no harder day to miss the one who gives unconditional love to everyone in his house.
--Marjie McDonald, Pennsylvania
A plug for older dogs: We adopted Boz when he was five. We don't want to chase after an energetic pup, it's constant work. Some say an older dog costs more in veterinary bills. But you're going to keep your puppy 'til he's old anyway, and if you adopt an adult dog you skip the carpet replacement stage. And you still get all the loyalty and love.
--Petrea Burchard, Pasadena
In July 2000, I took my 13-year-old stepson to the animal shelter in Prescott, Arizona, where we found a litter of six-week-old pups waiting. He picked out the one with the funny black spot on the forehead. Driving home with a ball of fur on the floorboard, we wavered between names: Spike, the obvious cool-boy choice, or Spot, the literal—yet inspired—one. I may have nudged him toward my own sense of nostalgia. Spot was a mutt, probably a cross between an Akita and an Australian Shepherd, fiercely loyal and just as protective of his people. He was the most conversational dog I’ve ever known; he and I could converse in at least two languages. He would cross his legs in front of him and look for all the world like a wise-eyed David Niven.
When Spot was about a year old, and had come into his adult legs, he began showing signs of stiffness in his hips. We took him in for x-rays and discovered he had severe hip dysplasia--so severe that the ball of his hip wasn’t just displaced from its socket, it actually hovered far above it. The other hip hadn’t fared much better. We were told that he needed complete hip replacements—metal joints on both sides—or he would be paralyzed by the age of four, dead by five. The operation was expensive, the recovery arduous and lengthy. We opted against it and decided to enjoy the time we had left with our dog.
When Spot turned ten, we had occasion to repeat the hip x-rays. Much to our—and the vet’s—amazement, it turned out that the hip joints had re-fused at some point: the ball was now clearly set in its socket. That isn’t supposed to happen, not without intervention. But it was clear that Spot had bucked the odds, and we had shared years together we didn’t think we had—years that included raft trips down the Green River (Spot hated water and never forgave us for this particular indignity); hikes through Organ Pipe National Monument; camping trips to Wyoming and red rock country and the Colorado Rockies. He “retired” to a large back yard here in Altadena and died last Halloween, at the age of almost eleven, sleeping in his favorite spot. That morning, he had chased squirrels.
Like the Little Engine, Spot was our dog that could.
--Linda Dove, Altadena
Join us tomorrow for more tales and tails. On the internet, rescue sites are plentiful. Here are a few of the local ones: Pasadena Humane Society, LA County Shelters, Boxer Rescue Los Angeles.
Do you have an animal rescue story? Tell us in the comments and upload your photos of your favorite pet.
Bonny Schumaker
8:01 am on Friday, November 25, 2011
Thank you for this article! Our seniors Ford and Tilly are our latest (which of course always means the greatest -- we learned that from dogs, who always assert that what we're doing right now is just the most fun ever!) in a long line of rescues. I can't imagine life without the love and energy and example of these ever-grateful beings. Seems to me that rescues almost never come when it's convenient to us, but always when the need is mutual, whether we know it or not. We've been privileged to help a few out who went on to be restored in health and heart by simple love and nutrition, and in doing that we have found some of the most genuinely kind and wise people of our lives. Check out Sheba-Cosette, Scarlett, Gunner & Cain, Abby & Dinozo, Jeremiah, Bear, and lots more heartwarming stores at OnWingsOfCare.org. Hey, wait, Ford and Tilly are on there too!
Ron Rosen
8:06 am on Friday, November 25, 2011
"Grieving hurts. But anyone worth loving is worth missing, deeply. The depth of our sorrow is a form of respect. And we'll adopt again, after the one we miss makes some room, gives up a little of the heart's real estate." Brilliant!
Dan Abendschein
8:47 am on Friday, November 25, 2011
Thanks Karin for doing this article again for us this year. I've added the photo of our new cat, Rocket J (whom we call the kitten). I found him last February while on a bike ride. I heard some sad meyowling, and found him under a car. A concerned neighbor brought some milk out and I gave it to him. He then tried to follow me home on my bike and refused to stay put after several attempts of me trying to leave. I gave up and took him home, telling myself it was temporary. We did not think our senior cat Fuzz would ever accept another cat at home, but after a few weeks of hissing and clawing they became good friends, and have been since. I've added Rocket J's photo to the site... everyone else who has a rescue pet feel free to do so as well.
Petrea Burchard
9:39 am on Friday, November 25, 2011
I just added Boz's photo. I've got a million of 'em.
Dan, I like your story of Rocket J. I guess he picked you.
I like all the stories. I think it's hard to understand them unless you've got one yourself, but anyone who's loved a pet knows what these stories mean.
Susan Campisi
10:20 am on Friday, November 25, 2011
Your words are so true, Karin. I feel an instant kinship when I meet a fellow animal lover. It's wonderful to read these tales. They tug at my heart and bring tears to my eyes. Thanks for giving us the space to share them.
Petrea Burchard
10:22 am on Friday, November 25, 2011
I was trying to keep my piece short but I want to add a little. I don't mean to say puppies aren't worth adopting and loving. It's just that they're popular and not always easy to get from the shelters while worthy, wonderful older dogs wait and wait for a home they sometimes die waiting for. Many are trained and so willing to be good dogs. Boz came to us that way and even now, at 13 years old (our best guess), he still learns new things. You can most definitely teach an old dog new tricks.
Karin Bugge
10:32 am on Friday, November 25, 2011
Hi Bonny! You're right about timing, and thank you for another rescue link. And thanks to everyone who shared and will share their stories and pictures. It does the heart good.
Kathy
12:03 pm on Friday, November 25, 2011
Thank you for your article Karin! I'm not at my regular computer so I can't upload pics...we have two rescued kitties and one rescue dog! All my cats have always been "pound" cats...or rescued in the neighborhood....they always seem to know that if it weren't for being "rescued" they wouldn't have made it or had such a good life. Kelly is our second "rescue" dog...We had our Miss Daisy from the time she was 5 until she passed away last march at 14...we rescued Kelly at age 13 months and have been so happy to have her join our furry family! She's a love and greets us with hugs and kisses!
Karin Bugge
6:06 pm on Friday, November 25, 2011
Sorry to miss the pictures, Kathy. And Petrea, I second your vote for the mature dog. In my experience, they settle into a new house quickly -- and gratefully.
Natalie
8:53 pm on Friday, November 25, 2011
"Animals make us Human" by Temple Grandin is a great book, I'd recommend it to everyone, and isn't the title so true? Temple recommends adopting a mutt from a shelter rather than a pedigree from a mail-the-puppy-to-you breeder, because they're genetically healthier (i.e. no high vet bills). I agree with Petrea about older dogs - the joy of one puppy or kitten has been enough - I prefer to adopt seniors nowadays. They're really, really grateful!
Sonia A. Mascaro
4:41 am on Saturday, November 26, 2011
What a great idea to do this article, Karin.
It's so touching to read about these wonderful dogs and cats stories and seeing so lovely pictures!
Love what you wrote: "We may live at opposite ends of the globe, speak different languages (...) but if you are someone who extends a helping hand to animals, you and I can still be friends. We have the basis for a relationship." Yes, it's so true and I agree with you.
Thank you for sharing with us this amazing reportage!
ShellSherree
5:10 am on Saturday, November 26, 2011
I love reading these beautiful stories, even though I can never make it through without having a good old howl ~ but they are happy tears, celebrating the love that resonates throughout. Thank you, KB.
Roberta Martínez
9:39 am on Saturday, November 26, 2011
Wonderful to see so many positive responses to your posts. Thanks for including our family stories.
Virg
7:04 pm on Saturday, November 26, 2011
Meeps and i are honored to have made the prestigious Patch, all the way from right here in Alabama! She's curled in my lap as I type, her favorite spot. These posts are heartwarming KB. Thank you for your big heart and love of animals. And thank you for being my sweet friend. V
Sonia A. Mascaro
6:49 am on Sunday, November 27, 2011
Susan, love seeing the photo of your dear Louise and Tommy taking sun together on the patio. Both looks very comfortable and happy! They are very lucky to have you in their life!
Sonia A. Mascaro
6:56 am on Sunday, November 27, 2011
Petrea, your dear Boz looks a very happy dog indeed! Love seeing him with the blue blanket on his back, so comfortable, looking around. Sweet boy!
Sonia A. Mascaro
7:06 am on Sunday, November 27, 2011
Dan, your beautiful Fuzz and Rocket J looks adorable together and embraced! It is great that both became good friends!
Patrizzi Intergalactica
7:45 am on Thursday, December 1, 2011
Ohhh sweetness.